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September 12, 2016

Subjunctive mood

September 12, 2016/ Burning Eye
Subjunctive mood

Si fuera elefante / If I were an elephant / Yet I never could be / And you, who never were / Dwell in this other plane of existence

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September 12, 2016/ Burning Eye/ 6 Comments
legacy, symbols
Burning Eye
July 13, 2016

Walking amongst the tombstones

July 13, 2016/ Jo-Anne
Walking amongst the tombstones

Sitting on the sand a few months ago, staring out at the raging ocean, I wondered: is this a good place to put her ashes, to scatter them in the sea I love so much? Maybe with her name engraved on a bench, overlooking the place where I scatter her? Maybe her name doesn’t belong on a tombstone.

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July 13, 2016/ Jo-Anne/ 2 Comments
memorial, spirit-world, symbols
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April 04, 2016

Mother Earth in spring

April 04, 2016/ Mrittika
Mother Earth in spring

The same spring, irritatingly new every year. Life is back on earth. My baby is not back. She was born in spring, three years ago. Life continues. Despite death. Death continues. Despite life.

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April 04, 2016/ Mrittika/ 12 Comments
after-effects, anger, anniversaries, birth, missing, symbols, time
Mrittika
September 28, 2015

The fall

September 28, 2015/ Mrittika
The fall

As we buried our offspring, / And carried their stories, / We crept, like reptiles, our hearts cold, / Into an eternal winter white. / No, fall, all your falling leaves / Cannot equal the fall / Of a single babylost life.

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September 28, 2015/ Mrittika/ 8 Comments
symbols, time
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June 29, 2015

Kintsugi: the beauty of brokenness

June 29, 2015/ Guest Writer
Kintsugi: the beauty of brokenness

Kintsugi reminds us of our mortality. As Seneca stated, "It is not that we have a short time to live but that we waste a lot of it." Nothing is eternal. And if we are not eternal what should we do with the time we have? Maybe we can start by appreciating scars as a sign of life lived adventurously or of grief endured.

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June 29, 2015/ Guest Writer/ 1 Comment
husbands & daddies, symbols
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June 15, 2015

The gift

June 15, 2015/ Guest Writer
The gift

The stone remains a gift for my daughter. I am merely her father, holding it while she is momentarily away, awaiting her return and request to carry it herself, perhaps with a welcomed, but not expected, smile and kiss on the cheek.

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June 15, 2015/ Guest Writer/ 8 Comments
coping, husbands & daddies, symbols
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Bereaved parents of lost babies and potential of all kinds: come here to share the technicolour, the vividness, the despair, the heart-broken-open, the compassion, and the other side of getting through this mess called grief.

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Parents of lost babies and potential of all kinds: come here to share the technicolour, the vividness, the despair, the heart-broken-open, the compassion we learn for others, having been through this mess — and see it reflected back at you, acknowledged and understood.

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