all i have to offer
/she is long gone,
and much of the carbon in her little body
has already moved on to someplace else.
and with that revelation, a relief --
she is long gone,
and much of the carbon in her little body
has already moved on to someplace else.
and with that revelation, a relief --
i always think you’re dying.
isn’t that the silliest thing?
you have long been dead
and in the ground
it’s not productive to think about
but sometimes it’s important to go over it all again,
like a perverted reassurance
that she died and it’s not my fault or her fault or their fault
my body knows
it quivers into december,
as warm wreaths brighten up lampposts
set against skies rich with winter coming
a backpack is full of hope and adventure
and discovery of who that precious child will become
in this strange formidable world that all children are called to conquer
Bereaved parents of lost babies and potential of all kinds: come here to share the technicolour, the vividness, the despair, the heart-broken-open, the compassion, and the other side of getting through this mess called grief.
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Parents of lost babies and potential of all kinds: come here to share the technicolour, the vividness, the despair, the heart-broken-open, the compassion we learn for others, having been through this mess — and see it reflected back at you, acknowledged and understood.
Thanks to photographer Xin Li and to artist Stephanie Sicore for their respective illustrations and photos.
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