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November 23, 2022

Baby X

November 23, 2022/ Guest Writer
Baby X

As a teenager, I hated algebra.
I could never wrap my head around the equations,
And the worst part was when I had to
Solve for x.

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November 23, 2022/ Guest Writer/ 3 Comments
missing, poetry
Guest Writer
August 15, 2022

I scream

August 15, 2022/ Guest Writer
I scream

I scream at a hospital bill for naught.
I scream at your big brother for things that aren’t his fault.
I scream “I’m fine” at all the well-intentioned questions.

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August 15, 2022/ Guest Writer/ 3 Comments
poetry
Guest Writer
July 05, 2022

Echo

July 05, 2022/ Emily
Echo

a missing piece of our family
gone for so much longer than he was here

just an echo
and my biggest what-if

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July 05, 2022/ Emily/ 1 Comment
missing, poetry
Emily
May 24, 2022

stone pillows

May 24, 2022/ Kathy
stone pillows

sometimes I pull out
my old map of the world
it’s foreign now, but recognizable
the familiar landscapes are still there
I just can’t visit them anymore

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May 24, 2022/ Kathy/ 3 Comments
poetry, symbols, surroundings
Kathy
February 28, 2022

Selfish?

February 28, 2022/ Emily
Selfish?

I wanted to shout to the rooftops
my baby died
but he was here



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February 28, 2022/ Emily/ 6 Comments
poetry, anger
Emily
February 14, 2022

a love song from the early days

February 14, 2022/ Kathy
a love song from the early days

this cursed body of mine, a walking grave,
a shallow coffin,
now scarred by an indescribable kind
of maternal violence
that i shudder to absorb

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February 14, 2022/ Kathy/ 8 Comments
body, holidays, poetry
Kathy
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Bereaved parents of lost babies and potential of all kinds: come here to share the technicolour, the vividness, the despair, the heart-broken-open, the compassion, and the other side of getting through this mess called grief.

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Parents of lost babies and potential of all kinds: come here to share the technicolour, the vividness, the despair, the heart-broken-open, the compassion we learn for others, having been through this mess — and see it reflected back at you, acknowledged and understood.

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