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November 27, 2023

she died not so long ago

November 27, 2023/ Kathy
she died not so long ago

my body knows

it quivers into december,
as warm wreaths brighten up lampposts 
set against skies rich with winter coming

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November 27, 2023/ Kathy/ 1 Comment
anniversaries, holidays, time
Kathy
August 25, 2023

Missed kindergarten

August 25, 2023/ Kathy
Missed kindergarten

a backpack is full of hope and adventure
and discovery of who that precious child will become
in this strange formidable world that all children are called to conquer

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August 25, 2023/ Kathy/ 4 Comments
parenting, poetry, seasons
Kathy
May 01, 2023

Chimera

May 01, 2023/ Kathy
Chimera

my body absorbed pieces of her
as carefully and instinctively as my soul did

it’s as lovely as she was lovely

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May 01, 2023/ Kathy/ 1 Comment
beauty, poetry, spirit-world
Kathy
January 09, 2023

Winter, two poems

January 09, 2023/ Kathy
Winter, two poems

and it is like this every year
when the axis of earth dares change its mind,
and when the memories of past winters
turn to crystals in the air

 

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January 09, 2023/ Kathy/ 3 Comments
poetry, surroundings, time, seasons
Kathy
September 12, 2022

infrasound

September 12, 2022/ Kathy
infrasound

the cells in my body tell me that she’s not gone,
just whisked away
like egg whites in a soufflé
or snowmelt in a mudslide

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September 12, 2022/ Kathy/ 3 Comments
May 24, 2022

stone pillows

May 24, 2022/ Kathy
stone pillows

sometimes I pull out
my old map of the world
it’s foreign now, but recognizable
the familiar landscapes are still there
I just can’t visit them anymore

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May 24, 2022/ Kathy/ 3 Comments
poetry, symbols, surroundings
Kathy
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Bereaved parents of lost babies and potential of all kinds: come here to share the technicolour, the vividness, the despair, the heart-broken-open, the compassion, and the other side of getting through this mess called grief.

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Parents of lost babies and potential of all kinds: come here to share the technicolour, the vividness, the despair, the heart-broken-open, the compassion we learn for others, having been through this mess — and see it reflected back at you, acknowledged and understood.

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